Dating Women Online

Here I am telling guys some free online dating tips I have learnt myself, you can read my regular dating tips here.

There's no point in limiting yourself to regular dating, I take advantage of every avenue and whenever I'm single, bored or just unsure I peruse through my social networking sites for girls to chat to. I may say 'Hi' and then never respond to their reply, depending on what my impression of them is, we all struggle in finding that Ideal somebody so why waste your valuable time on something that could be as meaningless as an email from someone you've never met? They could be anyone, so instead giving up after messaging a few girls who look beautiful - look for girls who look realistic and remember to establish a mutual interest and ask questions that can lead to responses. Tips on girls to avoid can be found in this hub of mine.

Online dating sites do not assure you are going to get what you want when you meet that person, believe me I have met a variety of girls online. Ive met girls with issues, tall girls, big girls and girls just interested in sex. This was'nt intentional, I got decieved by them and what was displayed on their profile was a 'bending of the truth' and I will continue to describe the methods that can be employed by them.

My friend says try specific dating sites rather than regular networking sites because then you know they are looking for the same thing as you, however I think generally people always keep an eye out for someone who they find attractive, either they respond or not. One girl I met through a regular social networking site asked to meet at a nightclub entrance and when I arrived I was shocked by the fact she was 6ft and I was 5ft 10", maybe this was an insecurity for her because she chose to leave this out of her profile. I approached her at the door where she was standing with her friend, which I was later discover was because she chain smoked and it is against the law to smoke in premises here. I should of given up on her after that night because she was obviously insecure from her body language and the fact she needed moral support with her.

Here I am going to expose some 'tell tale signs', mainly to do with photo editing and 'angle shots'. The above photo is what has been defined as the 'myspacepose', which includes any shot which is achieved from photographing from above, more interesting is the fact it is in black and white and low resolution. The girl in question may have arranged this in order to disguise the fact that she is short, or that she has very pale skin, this may not be a problem for you and it isn't a problem for me, but some guys prefer tanned girls or lack of distinguishing features such as moles.

I am not trying to be nasty or sound vain in this article, I do believe there is more to a person than their appearance, however, being attracted to someone physically does make up a percentage of being 'interested' and nobody likes having their time wasted. I don't prefer girls who are like 'rakes', I like average weight, but it is down to you what you desire, I think the compatibility of a couple depends somewhat on how they pair up in terms of equal attractiveness.

Big Girls often try to hide this and concentrate on their face, but if you decode the photo they may have left 'clues' like in the picture above. What can you notice about this girl? take your concentration away from the cute tongue poking out and cleavage for a moment and you can see she is flaunting her bracelets but also showing she has rather chubby hands. It can also be identified from the photo below where we can see her arms on display.

Another thing you may want to consider, is she constantly in photos with her friends out clubbing? this could be a sign that she is more interested in having fun than establishing a real connection with you, and maybe just wants a one nightstand. You also may view girls profiles where they only have photos taken by themselves, what does this tell you? probably that they are introverted or don't have many friends, you don't want somebody whos main interest is hanging out with you.

One girl I met was lovely when we went to watch a film, fairly quiet and friendly, however the next week when I met her with her friends she was intoxicated, flirty with her work mates and more interested in proceeding to nightclubs than to give me a decent snog.

To conclude the article I am going to describe another 'overall' personality review for you to ponder, try and assess the girl from the vibes she is giving off. With the girl above she is giving off a 'don't care' attitude, you don't wanna spend too much time talking to girls like this, she is probably more obessed with herself for no particular reason. You can see that the photo is taken from a distance and her real appearance is hidden behind a cloke of poor quality photography. My accusations are backed up by an example of her other photo which has been edited in photoshop.